It was her love of the game that first drew her to Kick4Life, a charity based in her native Lesotho by British brothers Steve and Pete Fleming in 2005.
Kick4Life presents help on a wide range of well being, schooling and gender packages in Lesotho, an enclaved nation inside South Africa.
One in all these packages is the Ladies United initiative, which helps weak women and girls dealing with gender-based violence, utilizing soccer as a way to interact and empower them.
“I went by way of some abuse that just about ended my life,” Ramokoatsi tells CNN Sport. “I used to be raped and I used to be not capable of discuss it. It occurred approach again in highschool, however assembly a number of the skilled folks at Kick4Lfe, I used to be capable of discuss it and capable of heal.
“I used to be not healed in any respect till I obtained right here. I all the time inform those who if it wasn’t for Kick4Life, I could not have been right here right now or I would not have been alive. It is an important factor that ever occurred to me as an individual.”
Within the 10 years since Ramokoatsi joined the charity, she has gone on to develop into the top coach of Kick4Life FC ladies’s group.
Final week, Kick4Life FC mentioned from subsequent season it is going to develop into the primary top-flight group on the planet to present its males’s and girls’s sides equal budgets.
Kick4Life FC’s males’s group received promotion to Lesotho’s high division in 2014, whereas the ladies have been founding members of the Lesotho Tremendous League and in 2018, with Ramokoatsi on the helm, secured the membership’s first main trophy by successful the Ladies’s Tremendous League Cup.
“We have seen that ladies’s group be extremely highly effective as position fashions and plenty of the gamers are concerned in operating Ladies United,” Kick4Life co-founder Steve Fleming tells CNN.
“[They’re] utilizing soccer as a way to interact and encourage and empower ladies, and likewise change attitudes of males as properly. Simply by seeing ladies taking part in soccer is beginning to break down perceptions in regards to the position of girls in society.”
Fleming says Kick4Life additionally runs instructional packages for males to try to change “archaic” attitudes in the direction of ladies in society.
Comparable will increase have been recorded around the globe because the pandemic pressured most nations into quarantine.
“As a membership devoted to social change we are able to not justify being complicit in a worldwide sports activities business that places alternatives for males forward of girls,” Fleming mentioned.
“And we consider that by altering issues on the soccer pitch, we are able to extra successfully pursue gender equality in all areas of life — at residence, at school, in relationships and within the office.”
Whereas it was soccer that first introduced Ramokoatsi to Kick4Life, she says the charity has given her much more than success on the pitch. Although initially not within the instructional packages Kick4Life needed to provide, she says they’ve helped her develop as individual.
“After I was in highschool, I used to be coping with my auntie who was identified with HIV,” she remembers. “However I used to be not supporting her. As a substitute, I used to be discriminating and stigmatizing her due to the virus. After being educated, I felt unhealthy about myself and by then my auntie had died of HIV.
“I obtained to see that what I used to be doing was unhealthy. As a substitute of stigmatizing and discriminating her, I ought to have supported her. I made it about myself that I’ll help each individual dwelling with HIV as a result of I didn’t try this for my auntie.”
Ramokoatsi was a part of a small group of gamers that based Kick4Life FC’s ladies’s group in 2010. Again then, there have been solely seven of them that performed for the membership and competed within the native league round Lesotho’s capital, Maseru.
Whereas the group has grown — she says she not must be each a participant and a coach — and achieved appreciable success on the pitch, Ramokoatsi says the expansion of her gamers as folks is what brings her essentially the most pleasure and pleasure.
“Our gamers will not be simply gamers or position fashions on the sector, however they’re additionally position fashions off the sector,” she says. “A few of them are coaches of the life expertise packages that we now have after which a few of them are partaking within the work that Kick4Life is doing.
“When the excel on the sector and excel off the sector, it’s all the time a pleasure for me. I am all the time happy with them.”
Kick4Life FC’s new gender equal budgets will come into place for the 2020/2021 season and Fleming hopes this may translate into success on the pitch.
After ending as runners-up 3 times, his dream is that the ladies’s aspect will probably be topped champions of the Tremendous League. For the lads’s group, he hopes they will in the future win the league and qualify for the Africa’s prestigious CAF Champions League.
Nevertheless, on-pitch success is simply a part of Kick4Life’s bigger aim of eradicating gender-based violence.
“This transfer has been behind our minds for some time, we really feel it is the appropriate factor to do,” Fleming tells CNN. “However this pandemic has actually proven us the urgency of it, that we have to do that.
“There’s by no means gonna be a simple time to make that transition, however seeing this enhance of gender-based violence, we felt that is the appropriate time to decide to it and say: ‘As a soccer membership, we will create a degree taking part in subject for ladies on the pitch.’
“We hope that sends a message out to those who they need to do the identical in different areas of society and that gender based mostly violence is unacceptable. Our gamers, males’s and girls’s gamers, we reside and breathe that philosophy going ahead.”
Ramokoatsi says a few of her goals have already been realized since becoming a member of Kick4Life. One in all them is the equal finances and the second is a number of the ladies who’ve acquired scholarships to play soccer within the States.
“I all the time wished the dad and mom of our children to permit our ladies to play soccer and with out discrimination, with out seeing soccer as a males’s recreation,” she says. “I need to see the extent of competitors that we see within the males’s group even be the extent of the competitors that we see in our ladies’s group.
“The alternatives that the boys are actually getting on the market needs to be the identical alternatives that the women are getting. The extent of respect that we give to males taking part in soccer needs to be the identical degree of respect that we give to our girls.
“A very powerful factor is each of our groups to not solely be position fashions on the sector, not solely to play the attractive recreation, however on the market in our communities they need to even be position fashions.
“They need to be these those who younger folks rising up ought to be capable to take a look at them and say: ‘I actually need to be like that individual after I develop up.'”